Restoration: Healing the Core Wound of Separation

Restoration: Healing the Core Wound of Separation

A gentle and intuitive path of healing trauma and awakening to our true nature of Presence.

Restoration: Healing the Core Wound of Separation is an 8 week online course created by Trauma Therapist, Organic Intelligence Certified Coach and experienced Nervous System Practitioner Candace Kirby.

“Be patient when you sit in the dark. The dawn is coming.”
~ Rumi

Childhood trauma is a loss of safety, trust and healthy reliance on others; and a loss of connection to the present moment; our bodies and true nature.

When the physiology of a child is overwhelmed by an event or events their inability to digest the overwhelm will cause their system to split off and give way to a false persona. This is necessary to the child’s survival. This split is an impulse away from authenticity and towards survival. This is what I call the core wound of separation.

In this course we will be working with separation from:

• Our Nature of Presence
• The Body
• Nature
• Spirit (Soul)
• Earth
• Others

This work of restoration is intuitive and nuanced work that requires a safe space, safe people and a slow and skilful approach.

This course is a slow, gentle and intuitive path of connecting with and learning to trust our direct experience. No manipulation. No tricks. No strategies. No attempt to master the body; only deep attunement, reverence and respect for the intelligence of a system that has survived.

Because many of us start on this path with a lot of undigested pain, trauma and nervous system dysregulation we go slow and lay a strong foundation to support our physiology in ways it has never been supported before. To heal trauma we must restore what was lost; safety, trust and healthy reliance on ourself and others without shaking the foundation of the survival system too quickly.

The course material including practices are restorative; slow, simple and repetitive which the physiology needs to settle and begin to come into regulation. The safe container of the group will offer consistent support and compassionate attunement for your nervous system.

“This will be so good. Before I started taking your courses I didn’t even know my nervous system was in a constant state of flight/freeze. Now I’m really seeing how my outward expression doesn’t always match what I’m feeling inside and I’m learning that’s okay! I’ve been following a spiritual path for decades, and I’m so grateful to have that as a foundation. But this work is different. It embodies all that I’ve learned and I’m finally finding my authentic true self. I’ve not ever had any practice or study that brings me Home like this does. Thank you so much, Candace.” ~ Participant

This course will help you:

• Understand the impact of past and present trauma on the physiology and why we suffer.
• Tend to your nervous system states with more understanding and confidence.
• Pause, slow down, rest and find ease in the present moment with the support of the group and consistent guided practices
• Notice that the present moment environment is consistently offering support.
• Align with what is helpful and supportive and let go of what isn’t
• Build capacity to be here by first building a foundation of safety, stability and unconditional acceptance.
• Feel safe in the company of others. Perhaps for the first time.
• Make peace with your mind by understanding how nervous system states fuel our thoughts.
• Learn how to soften and release what’s been held in the body.
• Come to know yourself through your direct experience.

In this course we will engage in teachings, simple present moment practices; meditation, neurosensory practices, grounding, orientation and creative practices followed by questions and dialogue.

This is a slow and gentle process.

Registration includes:

• Access to all 8 live classes.
• All class audio recordings.
• Weekly homework practices and primings for upcoming topics.

To arrange e-transfer payment for CDN participants email candace@candacekirby.ca.

If cost is a barrier please message me.  I am happy to accommodate.